Guys ask girls: help Ryan and his roving erection…
25 comments | Published by Olly Meakings |
After having a kissing session or ‘making out’ I get an erection and am hugging my ‘girlfriend’ and she ‘feels’ it. How will she respond if she does and what should I do?
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Ryan aged 14 wants to know:
If, like I think will happen, after having a kissing session or ‘making out’ I get an erection and am hugging my ‘girlfriend’ and she ‘feels’ it. How will she respond if she does and what should I do?
Girls, what do you think? Is Ryan’s roving erection a big (or small) no-no? How should he handle it? And what should he say? Leave your thoughts below and put this poor boy’s mind to rest. If you want to be featured here please the site’s editor Olly with your question.
Your thoughts on Ryan's dilemma...
meeeeeeeeee
i think its totally normal and i do think she will understand she most likely would not say anything about it and she might tell her bf but thats about it i was in that situation once when i had a boyfriend he got a lil excited lol but i just brushed it off laughed at home a lil and told 1 friend bt nothing 2 really worry about =)
lauren
it depends on your girlfriend to be honest, some girls might see it as a compliment, or some might be abit taken aback, but either way, if it was me, i wouldnt mention it and i dont think most girls would because as much as it is embarrasing for you, she’ll also be embarrased. Also, your girlfriend will no that sometimes boys tend to get ‘excited’ and really it’s not that big of a deal. It happens, if you were confident you could even laugh about it, it helps! Good Luck
Han
Look, all I want to say is that you can’t help it, it’s a fact of life!
If she dosent like it then she will have to get over it. We went out to the cinemas with a couple of really good friends the other day, one of the lads got an erection. I tried to pretend I didn’t notice and then just continued on as normal. Afterwards I asked him discreetly (when he was alone!) if he had a stiffy and he simply replied ‘so, what else was supposed to happen’. It’s completely normal but if you feel that badly about it then just explain your dilema to her. Just say, I’m really worried, I keep getting erections when I’m making out with you but I realli can’t help it! Warn her and then if she truley loves you she will just leave it be and be dicreete when mentioning about it, if not she obviously didn’t love you enough to let your body feel natural emotions and be free! Good Luck, I’m sure u’ll be fine!
I,Love,Twilight,x
Becky,,
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You cant really help it, but it might scare a phew girls. True they will tell a BF, but you never know how she will respond. She may have gotten a little excited too
Candice
She will probably try and suck it LOL. Thats what I do!
The girly guru
If it was me i would lean back smile and if the smiled i would slightly laugh in a jokin way and hold ther hand and walk off. Nothin would come of it. =D
Georgia-hoot
It’s nothing to be embarrassed about at all it happens with my bf all the time. Just ignore it, whatever you do don’t act embarrassedd , then she won’t. And don’t try and cover up you’re embarrasment with big headed ness, beccause then she might be freaked out or feel pressured to do something to you, if she mentions it just laugh it off or wink sarrcastically. Say something along the lines of “ well you are a very beautiful young lady” and laugh, it’s nothing to hide or be embarassed about
xxx
Scarlett
Hey, Most GirlZz Would Take It As A Compliment
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KariPollock
it kinda cant be helped eh ? if it were me i dont know how i would deal with it, but its no MASSIVE problem haha
smidge
Im sure she won’t mind, if she really really cares about you, she will only tell her best friend. And then she will forget it ever happened.
Cezza
You should not be worried about it at all. It cant be helped and it happens to all guys at some time in their life. Your girlfriend should understand that it is a natural thing and well if she loves you she will just laugh it off and smile at you. Just tell her you ‘’can’t control it and at the end of the day your a really gorgeous girl’’ she will like the fact that you have explained to her and also the fact that you have made a little compliment about her.
Just remember your a guy… what do you expect
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Bex xx
it’s nothing to worry about! My boyfriend gets it all the time, and i take it as a compliment. if it happens just say ‘not my fault your beautiful’ or summin like that. it’s really natural, and if the girl will be cool with it
you shouldnt get embarassed about it, embaressment is a turn off. its fine xxxx
danny
i get them all the time wiv my gf - lol if she rubs ure trousers wot does she xpect/ shows her that you are a horny guy and that she is well fit. don’t worry bout it
aaamy:)
your the only one that can say what your girl friend is likee, and you should know wether she would mind or not, personally, i’d just find it abit funny that it happend whilst hugging or kissing or whatever, i wouldn’t mind, what else does she expect from a 14 year old lad? dont worry about it matee, im sure she’d be fine with it, if shes not one of them serious ppl that think anything sex related is discusting lol
en
Its so not a big deal....If my guy got a stiffy from me i wud b like i did a good job kissing today lol....relax she probably tinks da same ting and if she doesnt an is scared or someting like dat explain its not sumting u can really contol an u wont do sumting she wont like.
stephanie :)
dont worry it will make her feel special cuz then she knows shes looking good
......... RELAX KILLER!!! hehe
Ellie
Don’t worry it’s natural!!
She probably will be a little embarrased but most of all it’s like a compliment.
She might ask you to your face or she may text/facebook mail you about it bit all you have to say is I’m with a very pretty girl what do you expect
It will be fine
good luck xx
emilyjayne
tbh i dont think they would be bothered and probably wont mention it.
however some girls might feel quite awkward an may mention it but they wont be horrible unless they are just a slyy person so dont worry
xx
Ciara123
I would actually like it well not the feeling, but the fact that I’d turn you on. If she is really embarrassed just say sorry about it and try to make a joke about it.
Lina
i think it really depends on the girl...if she is more of a shy and doesnt really knw whts going on i think she would be likely 2 be afraid then its really important that you will be chilled about it and not make a whole drama mayb you should try and crack a joke or something
. Though this girl could also see this as an invitation to something more then its all up to you...and dont forget the protection 
x_Taylor.
Well it’s a natural part of life
if she says anything about it youu shouold just say well i can’t help it that i am going out with a really beautiful girl or something along those lines ;D It happened to my boyfrriend when I was going out with him and i just took it as a compliment 
xx
philosoraptor
i think you should chop off your penis.
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birthdaypartyfun
Some girls get freaked out especially if shes not your girl friend. But, relax its a natural things
Charlotte:)
i’ve been in that situation… and in school no less ad i just ignored it.. but with my next boyfriend (current) i noticed it and pulled him up on it, i made a joke out of it and so did he, but just mentioning it immediately makes both parties really relaxed.. at the end of the day you’re subconsciously showing how you’re feeling at that time.. if she doesn’t like it, then i guess it isn’t meant to be.. x