Does he like me or is he pissing about? Dear troubled teen part 7
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Today’s victim had the object of her affection sing Bloodhound Gang to her. Does that mean he likes her or that he’s some sort of sadist. Hit ‘see more’ to find out.
Hi,
I have liked this guy for a while, and we have been friends for about 6 months. We are not close friends, but i would say he is a guy mate. Anyway, i have been flirting with him for a while. More online stuff than real face to face.
Then i get an invite to this girls party, and so does he. So i get there and he turns up a bit late. And we are hanging out together with the rest of this group. Then we hug in a friendly way and he slaps my bum, i slap back. After this, maybe 30 mins later, he come up behind me and starts coming onto me really strong. And whenever the song lyrics fitted the steamy mood he would sing them to me. E.g ‘let’s do it like they do it on the discovery channel’. And we were holding hands etc…
Anyway i was really happy, thinking he liked me and that. And just before he left, he kinda went in to kiss me but i didn’t kiss him just in case he was just pissing about and didn’t mean anything. Then he leaves.
Since then i have talked to him on MSN and facebook and he hasn’t said anything about what happened apart from the he had fun. I’m really confused and don’t know what to do. I talked to one of his mates, and he said he thinks he was probably just pissing bout.
Please help, because i really need to set things straight as for the past 3 days i have just been moping about :/
Dear Troubled Teen,
First of all, if a boy ever sang us a lyric from a Bloodhound Gang song, we think it would put us off him for life. But this has not deterred you, so it’s obvious you really like him. And from your email, it sounds as though the feeling is mutual.
Although some boys act as though they have all the confidence in the world, this often not the case and the boy is probably just as uncertain as you about whether you like him or not.
And of course he won’t ever bring it up, he’s obviously embarrassed and thinks you aren’t interested. Which is probably why he left when he tried to kiss you.
Our advice would be to stop moping, it will only make the situation worse, and while chatting with this boy on MSN or Facebook, why not arrange to meet up again? If you aren’t ready to meet up just the two of you, why don’t you arrange to meet with both his friends and yours. That way it will be less awkward and you’ll feel more confident.
And if this is successful, which we at teentoday.co.uk almost certainly guarantee, when he goes in for a kiss, don’t move away this time.
Good luck!
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Do you think he likes her? Would you like a guy to sing Bloodhound gang to you?
Dave
haha I love that song!
anyway… I think he was trying to have fun with you.
If he tried to kiss you though, that’s a different story. He is probably embarassed that you didn’t kiss him.
I’m just saying he’s definetely comfortable with you, in order to sing to you like that, but if you want to make something happen between you and him don’t turn down a friggin’ kiss! He has probably lost all hope in getting you now, because of that.