Q: Dear tt, I have got a girlfriend from college but I have recently been introduced to a really fit girl through a friend of mine. I’ve heard that she fancies me. I don’t know what to do? Please help!

A: Hi there,

Thanks for your problem.

Firstly, you need to think about your current relationship with your girlfriend. If you are happy in your current relationship then there isn’t a problem.

However, it seems that you aren’t happy, else why would you be wondering about this other ‘fit’ girl?

Maybe this new girl likes you, maybe she doesn’t but at this stage that DOES NOT MATTER. If you’re not happy with the girl you are with you need to be honest with HER now. That doesn’t mean you have to be rude, but just explain to her that you don’t feel your relationship is going anywhere.

After your relationship is over you can think about getting to know the new girl.

DO! Be honest with yourself - are you happy with your current gf?
DON’T! Leave your current gf expecting to go out with this new girl.
DON’T! Think that just because this other girl is fit, she is going to be the best person for you.
REMEMBER! Relationships aren’t about being with someone until someone better comes along. They’re about being with the person you want to be with.